关于孩子性取向的教育,我们在家也和孩子讨论,说不管什么性取向都是正常的。他们也知道LGBTQ(应该是学校也学习了)。我老公和老大单独聊天也直接问过他是喜欢男孩还是女孩。老二从9岁开始就喜欢女生,所以也不用问。
关于性的教育,我老公也很早就和孩子们聊这个话题,(女性怀孕生娃的生理过程)。学校应该是year 7还是year 8开始有性教育课。估计孩子们在学校也会聊(就像你儿子的同学那样)。我觉得这些作为家长也很难干扰。只能是给孩子坦诚的讲性和性安全,未雨绸缪。这个话题最好是你老公给孩子讲,man to man talk。
First of all, what are you hoping to achieve talking to him?
From what I can see he knows of what’s going on, and just think it’s naughty for the boys to act like that in someone else’s house, which I think it’s a pretty normal reaction?
As for the boys in question, I was fully aware who I am around the same age, and I have got some guy from a different class in the same year talking to me about porns he watched and writing me love letters - so I don’t think it’s too early for someone to realise their feelings, and I don’t think it’s something that you need to interfere.
You can’t stop someone from entering puberty though - put a tap on the hormones?
Jokes aside, it is a parent’s responsibility to help and guide their children entering this new phase of physical growth xx
You should tell him that if his friends entrust this information to him, he shouldn’t gossip (although we are hardly the ones to talk )
Children are naturally curious about things they do not fully understand - if you think it’s the right time then some proper sex education that satisfy his curiosity would probably help.
That’s why I am alway find it intriguing when people “discover their sexuality” in their mid-20s - for me an my man there were never really any doubts